I called my Mom today just to chat. I love that I can do that.
We are working on our family history together. I showed her how to search the 1940 Census and she now has my Dad helping her look for people. We both get involved in the stories about people we don't even know. How did they get there? Why did they have so many people living under one roof? But I digress.
Mom decided to go back through Murphysboro, Ill because she thought she may have forgotten to look for a family member. This time she stumbled upon Sister Blanche. Mom said when she saw the name all her memories of Sister Blanche came rushing back.
Sister Blanche crocheted two shawls. One she gave to my grandmother and one to my mother. Sister Blanche was also there when my mother was pregnant with me and was very concerned because a coffin was placed outside my mother's window. Worse yet, my mother was going to be there when they opened the coffin so they could see how much decay had happened to the body. Sister Blanche would not stay and she was convinced that I would be marked because of this experience. (That is still up for debate)
Now before you jump to conclusions and think that my mother was involved in grave robbing let me explain. My grandfather took care of the cemetery. That means that he dug graves, mowed it and did all the things one does in a cemetery. Death was just part of life. So when they had the opportunity to move a coffin from one cemetery to another and with the Funeral Director there they decided that they would open the coffin. Nothing morbid, just curiosity.
Back to Sister Blanche. As my Mom was telling me her memories I wondered who else was there to still tell stories about Sister Blanche? Not many I am sure.
My Mom shared Sister Blanche with me and I want to share Sister Blanche with you. You see all the names on that census that we glide over in our hurry to find our ancestor have stories. Stories that may never be told. Stories that like the ink on the paper are fading from memory.
I turned out pretty okay Sister Blanche. Thanks for caring about me all those years ago.
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Tuesday, May 29, 2012
Wednesday, May 23, 2012
1940 Census and George E. Smith
I am thrilled to announce that George E. Smith and family are in the 1940 census.
There they are at the bottom. They are living in a rural area. Mary Lou is deceased at this time so it is only George, Sarah, George Jr, Robert, Leona (my Mom) and Thomas at home. It is a snapshot of life.
George E is a carpenter and owns a shop. I can only assume that Sarah is a homemaker. Nothing is listed. George Jr is an attendant in a Lumberyard and Robert is in the CCC. Leona is in school and Thomas only being 2 years of age is a toddler.
George E. is 64 years old and Sarah is 39. I bring this up as I know that my grandfather, George E. was the same age as my Mother's Grandfather!
Little did any of them know that on April 4, 1940 when Harold J. Harford knocked on the door that I would with such anticipation wait for the 1940 Census to be released.
I am older than my Grandma, Sarah and younger than my Grandfather, George. I can only imagine what it must have been like for them living on the plains of South Dakota during the depression. I have heard stories and still it is hard to imagine.
Now Grandpa I just need to figure out who your parents are, that is still a mystery.
There they are at the bottom. They are living in a rural area. Mary Lou is deceased at this time so it is only George, Sarah, George Jr, Robert, Leona (my Mom) and Thomas at home. It is a snapshot of life.
George E is a carpenter and owns a shop. I can only assume that Sarah is a homemaker. Nothing is listed. George Jr is an attendant in a Lumberyard and Robert is in the CCC. Leona is in school and Thomas only being 2 years of age is a toddler.
George E. is 64 years old and Sarah is 39. I bring this up as I know that my grandfather, George E. was the same age as my Mother's Grandfather!
Little did any of them know that on April 4, 1940 when Harold J. Harford knocked on the door that I would with such anticipation wait for the 1940 Census to be released.
I am older than my Grandma, Sarah and younger than my Grandfather, George. I can only imagine what it must have been like for them living on the plains of South Dakota during the depression. I have heard stories and still it is hard to imagine.
Now Grandpa I just need to figure out who your parents are, that is still a mystery.
Friday, February 17, 2012
Elias Babcock My 3rd Great Grandfather
| Elias Babcock 1817 - 1880 |
Elias is on my Maternal side.
Elias moved to Kansas in 1861 and filed a claim in Chetopa Township, Wilson County, Kansas. He built a fort of sand rock and timbers on the southern edge of Chetopa Township to ward off the Osage Indians, but did not succeed. He returned to Illinois and enlisted in the Union Army, Company K 1st Brigade Illinois 107th light artillery. While in the army, fighting in Kentucky, Elais became seriously ill. He wrote a personal letter to President Lincoln asking to be discharged. The President turned the letter over to the Surgeon General of the U.S. He reviewed the case and examined Elias and determined he was not fit to fighting; but was fit for ambulance corp. work. Consequently Elias was not discharged until the end of the war in 1865.
After he was discharged, Elias and his family returned to the original claim in Chetopa Township. They arrived on November 30, 1865, but were again run out by Indians. They returned in the fall of 1866. Elias was the first homesteader to stake claim in Chetopa Township, Kansas. He was a farmer and carpenter by trade.
Elias and Laura were the parents of 6 children; William, Ezra, Samuel, Sarah, Mary, & Joseph. Five of his children homesteaded next to his property. William and Samuel to the north, Sarah (Babcock) Osburn and Mary K. (Babcock) Kilgore across the road west and Ezra one-half mile west, where the Babcock fort was constructed. Part of the fort remains to this day.
Elias died March 26, 1880 and wife Laura Keziah died October 19, 1894. Both are buried in Harrison Cemetery, one mile north of their original homestead location. The cemetery is located on land donated by Elias' son William Henry Babcock. Five of the six children are also buried at Harrison Cemetery in Wilson County, Kansas.
Transcription of: (Spelling not corrected)
Letter to the President Lincoln of the United States from Elias Babcock, Jan 7, 1864
Dear sir-
I volunteered in the 107th Illinois some where about between the 10th or 15th of August 1862. Thomas Snell was our Col. C. McComas our Leut. Col. They picked often with Snell for some minor offence at Louisville, Kentucky, who was very good to his men but no military man. J.J. Kelly then became our Col. Some time in last June they put us on a force march for some two weeks which has destroyed my health. Had chronic diareah before I started. I was then transfered to the 7th Illinois Battery under John H. CAlvin as Captain, then put in the Munfordville Hospital 3 weeks for medicical attention. Then we was taken to Glasgow, Kentucky from Glasgow to KNoxville, Tennessee. Got there the first day of September (1863). Took medicine nearly all the time, but was forced to go with the battery. Some time in the ambulance and sometimes on horse back. The Captain went home to recruit, left us with little ammunition. Shot that all away at rebels at Bean Station, then was ordered to Knoxville, Tennessee. Whether for winter quarters or not I don't know. Sent to General Hospital No. 4 Ward 7. I have lost the use of myself, so that I can rarely get about. Taken so much medicine that I am so absent minded that I hardly know what I am about. Have been a dead expense to the government about ever since I was 46 years old, the 4th of last September (1863). Supposing that if I was fit for the service that it was my duty to serve my country and if I could not stand it at all would discharge me, but it seems as if that discharging is played out here to die here in the absence of my family is a great deal to bare. I have no disposition for anything more than the wellfare of my country. If this letter does no good, surley it will do no harm. I have lived where Piatt County is ever since December 6th of 1835. I have a wife and five children at home 3 and a half miles east of Monticello. It seems as if this is a rather rash step, but a drowning man will catch a straw. I hardley ever expect I will hear from this again, no doubt, but I have forever lost my health here in the Army. Besides my poor family is to be supported I ________ afraid that they will come to want. I will say that (General) Burnsides gave the rebels a good grubbing here. Certain the rebels are some where 25 or 30 miles east of here. They fitting every day probably without much advantage to either side. Food and forage hard to get. Hardly a half supply can't be had. General Grant came here the 31st of December and started to the front the first of January. I will say that while we was in Kentucky, that rations was twice ot thrice as large as now in this hospital and that many times as good we have neither bunks, hospital blankets. Breakfasts at 1 o'clock and with scarcely any fair, this seems strange but never the less it is and the half is told.
Direct your letter to Elias Babcock, Knoxville General Hospital No 4 Ward 7. E. Babcock to Abraham Lincoln of USA. I am your cencere friend and ever will be and was in 1860. If I should get a line from you I shall be very thankful indeed.
Just a little something for President's Day.
Monday, January 30, 2012
Can I find a Bonham in the Phone Book?
Growing up in the military we moved around a lot. One of the first things I did when we arrived in our new town was to look in the phone book to see if there were Bonhams. It was unusually to find one unless we were in Texas.
I came to believe that there were not a lot of Bonhams out there. Boy, was I wrong! It appears that there are tons of Bonhams all across the United States. There are some in Europe too, but I can't even get my head around that fact.
I grew up think that I was a Yankee. Turns out that was wrong also. We come from proud Southerners. The truth...my ancestors are Southerners. I am a product of the Mid-West.
I am trying to get my head around the fact that during the Civil War two brother ancestors fought on the opposite side and never spoke to each other for the rest of their lives.
I came to believe that there were not a lot of Bonhams out there. Boy, was I wrong! It appears that there are tons of Bonhams all across the United States. There are some in Europe too, but I can't even get my head around that fact.
I grew up think that I was a Yankee. Turns out that was wrong also. We come from proud Southerners. The truth...my ancestors are Southerners. I am a product of the Mid-West.
I am trying to get my head around the fact that during the Civil War two brother ancestors fought on the opposite side and never spoke to each other for the rest of their lives.
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| Romulas Calhoun Bonham |
Friday, January 20, 2012
George E Smith
George E Smith is my maternal Grandfather. I really do not remember him and now I can't find him.
He is, what in the genealogy world is referred to as a "Brick Wall". I have pieces of information, but I just can't put everything together. I think that I have a first name for a first wife. I know the names of his children from his first wife. (Perhaps, the 1940 Census will help)
I know some of the places that he lived and where he was born and where he died. I even know where he was supposedly buried, though the cemetery no longer exists.
I have a couple of photos of him and I have the stories that my Mom tells me about him, though he was gone much of her life. He was a carpenter and it appears that he traveled and worked were he could find it. It was during the depression.
I hope to find out more about you. I am persistent.
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| George E Smith |
He is, what in the genealogy world is referred to as a "Brick Wall". I have pieces of information, but I just can't put everything together. I think that I have a first name for a first wife. I know the names of his children from his first wife. (Perhaps, the 1940 Census will help)
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| Margaret Wilson & George Smith |
I have a couple of photos of him and I have the stories that my Mom tells me about him, though he was gone much of her life. He was a carpenter and it appears that he traveled and worked were he could find it. It was during the depression.
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| George Smith |
I hope to find out more about you. I am persistent.
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